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unrequited love
ok so here it goe, theres a guy that i really like he gives me butterflies and all i cannot get him out of my head, i always got the impression from him that he wanted me like he asked to come over to my house, he tried to kiss me he was always giving me hugs, he kissed me on the neck twice, he tried to get me on my own a few times, ok so the fact is that he is married with kids, i dont know why i have feelings for him, i stupidly told him the other week and all he said was i dont know what to say to you and i told him to go and he left since then we have barely spoke partly due to me been distanced with him, i still feel for him and dont know what to do i dont think i want an affair and he obviuosly doesnt or he wouldnt of walked away would he so any advice sorry if it doesnt make any sense
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This might sound harsh and I apologize for that, but you have to move past him. I know that's what you want to do, but what I mean is you have to give up the chance that anything will happen. An affair is tricky business and it can ruin an entire family. I think that it is a good idea to distance yourself from him. Even the fact that he did all those things with you already was wrong of him. You have to give yourself time. You also need to stop wondering if he might've liked you or not, because it just won't happen. You will be wasting time and energy on thoughts like that. So take a deep breath and give yourself time. If you find yourself thinking about him, shrug and tell yourself it doesn't matter because it won't happen. I'm sorry you are feeling this way and I don't mean for you to be hurt. But I feel like you and other people will get hurt if you allow your thoughts to become action.
Best of luck.
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