Complicated desicions... she cheated on me, now wants me back... yet again?
Question Posted Wednesday February 27 2013, 10:08 pm
This girl and i have been off and on for about 2 years now. She was pregnate with a child, whom was not mine when i met her. We dated (baby died of heart failure) for about a year. She then cheated on me and dated Mr. Macho. After about half a year, she came back wanting me. I accepted, but she was just playing games with me, not really wanting to get back together. Several months pass again, and she now wants me more than ever. Asking for kisses, chance after chance after chance.. I dont know what to do. I do have feelings for you, but the trust.. just is NOT there. Please help me.
Xui answered Thursday February 28 2013, 12:01 am: Move on
She cheated, She lied and she betrayed you. She IS playing games and will continue too play them as long as you allow her too. Why does she crawl back? Because you take her back and she knows this.
She is unstable in her life and us looking to fill her void of unhappiness.
So no, You tell her no and best to cut contact with her. This woman needs to get her act together before she can give a relationship what it deserves. She already had her chance and she blew it niw she needs to grow up. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
nookshooks answered Wednesday February 27 2013, 11:49 pm: Tell her no. she had her chance. She broke your heart. and now since you feel that affection you had before that should make you forget about the passed? My ex did that to me and she wanted me back a couple months later say no. move on to someone who wont hurt you and you can have that affection with. [ nookshooks's advice column | Ask nookshooks A Question ]
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