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How to make girls feel better when...
So today there was this girl that i like and was in a bad mood, but i tried to make her feel better, but i dont think anything happened, so my question is: if a girl is sad, angry, crying or something like that, what do you tell her and how do you tell her like this she feels much better?
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Make her feel warm... sometimes its just not necessary to talk...just hold her hands making her feel that you are there for her and sit...give her time...if you know her truly, you should know about her interests..like stuffs which she is crazy for or passionate about...talk about them...but talk in a general sense...dont make her feel as if you are trying to lift her mood...gradually she will feel your warmth...then she can talk about her probs...but let her do it spontaneously..dont go on nagging asking about what happened...it will seriously irritate her and she may not pour out her mind to you at all..have patience...if you can be a true friend she will definitely trust you and open up...
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One of the best way to help someone who doesn't feel like sharing their problem is to distract them. make her laugh. Watch a show or movie with her. Show her funny links or youtube videos. Tell her about something funny that happened to you. Sometimes when people just need to be distracted and to smile. Also let her know she can talk to you. No need to insist on her saying anything. But it's nice letting her know she can talk to you. I think this is the best way to help someone out. And when she does tell you, remember to listen and show support.
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Ask her what is wrong and tell her you are willing to listen and offer support if she needs it. Do more listening than talking though. She may feel like sharing or may not with you depending on what she's grappling with that day. Either way she will appreciate your concern.
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