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need advice :(
Im 15 & in high school. I really like this Guy. He's so cute, I've liked him for a long time now. Well I think he knows I like him but not sure. I want to tell him so I can get to know him better. Idk Im really scared about telling him & don't wanna make things awkward between us. I like how he always nice to me, funny, sweet, & shy. When I see him I get all excited .I asked all my friends & they say write him a note telling him how you feel & if he doesn't like you back tell him to give it to you. But my friends haven't had a good long relationship . I wanna know if he likes me. It hurts to see him & think what if. I'm tired of over thinking about him & if he like me. Ya if he doesn't like me its OK but it hurts me not knowing. Please help me
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Been there I think you should invite him to a group event with his friends and yours. Do that a see if goes if he does then you know that he likes you then again he probably might like one of your friends sometimes guys are like that. After you invite him to a group event and he goes and you still want to know if he likes you I mean like likes you then you could have a friend or a few (up to you) have them talk to his friends and have them find out for you if you trust your friends and they are willing to do that for you. You got to be careful because a friend of yours might like him and want him for themselve so watch out for that too. I hope that I helped you some good luck.
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Rather than tell him outright and risk rejection do something a little different that doesn't leave you too vulnerable. That something different is inviting him to a party, movie with friends, bowling or anything with a group.
If he likes you he will most certainly go. If he doesn't and turns your offer to "hang-out" with your friends than you'll know he isn't interested. You risk nothing from rejection to even teasing if he doesn't like you back.
It's safer that way to snag the person you want without really putting yourself and your heart on the line. If you want him you have to make a move and this one is safest.
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