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Is it just wishul thinking?Who should I choose?
So there' these guys I like,but I don't know which I should chose.
Guy # 1- I know he's odler than me,but age doesn't matter.He had a girlfriend,they used to be togethr all the time.But now,they are never together,so I don't think they go out.I've never talked to him before,but I like him.When we pass in the hallway ,our eyes catch before one of us looks away.
Guy # 2 - He's also older than me,but I like him also.I know he has a girlfriend,but there's just something about him that I can't get over.It seems like everywhere I go in school,he's there.We have no classes togeter or anything,but we always cross paths.I feel like he doesn't know I exist.But he stops and talks to my friends if they talk to him,and he'll cast a glance at me.
Which guy should I choose?How can I start a conversation with them,since I'm shy?Do either of them seem like they like me back?Is it wishful thinking?Should I give up?
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I think you should start on getting to know guy#1 and just leave guy#2 alone. Here's why, if you still try to go for guy#2, chances are, you're just going to make things complicated. He already has a girlfriend. Okay. Let's get back to guy#1. Try approaching him and make friends with him. Start by saying Hi! and introduce yourself. You can also ask your friends to help you out. Try getting close to guy#1's friends too. Be friends with them that would make you and guy#1 closer to each other. When the time comes that you and him are already good friends, try asking him out. Yes I know you're shy. I was a shy girl like you too and it took me a lot of courage to ask out my really cute friend who is now my boyfriend. Anyway. Don't give up. You haven't tried to get to know the guy yet and you still have no answer to your question if he does like you or not.
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Well before you choose, try getting to know each of them better. When they go to talk to your friends, try joining in the conversation and talking to them. If your friends are friends with him then have them invite him to things & that could be a way for you to talk to him more & get to know him better. If you see them everywhere, try bumping into them or make up an exuse to talk to them. Like asking for a pencil or asking them if they know where a teacher is or something. I don't know if they like you, but even if they don't thats okay cause they dont even know you! Once you get to know each of them better you can decide which one you like better, and take it from there.So Good luck! Hope I could help.
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