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Worried after trip to the Gynecologist
20/f
I just had my very first gyn visit today. I am not sexually active but I had been having problems so I thought it would be a great idea to go. Even though my nurse and my doctor we very kind, the whole appointment hurt so bad that I cried and bleed a little and it was so so painful. My doctor said that he could barely get his finger in the vagina to feel for any issues, and he said he was trying to avoid to do any more extensive testing because it was so painful.
The problem is that me and my boyfriend (who are abstinent) are planning on getting married this summer. After the visit, I am just so worried that I will never be able to comfortably have sex because of how tiny my system is. I want desperately to be able to have fun and have a great physical relationship with my husband.
Is going to the gyno more painful on the vagina and cervix than intercourse is?
Is there anything to do to help me feel more comfortable?
Has anyone else felt this way and might be able to help me?
Like I said, I want desperately to be able to have such a wonderful relationship with my soon-to-be husband. This has scared me so much that I am just feeling like I will never be able to have sex without so much pain.
Please help :(
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