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What do I do about him?!
13/F
My dad hates me. He is ALWAYS trying to send me to foster care! He won't just send me because he doesn't want to make my mom leave him. He wants her to see me as a devil. Here's an example: I was with both of them the other day and my dad said "We're going to get pizza and you get none.' and after I told him I didn't want to go, he said "See?! This is why she needs to go to foster care!"
My mom now thinks of me as a bad person - He's ALWAYS trying to make me tell him to "Shut up" or "Shush" so then he'll have an excuse to hurt me and get me out of the room (I don't have a room anymore because he didn't let me. HE MAKES ME SLEEP ON THE FLOOR. )
I don't want to go somewhere else, though, because I want to stay with my family - Just without him here. He doesn't abuse me, but he sort of "comes after me" if you know what I mean. Whenever I call him abusive, he says it's a punishment! When I do NOTHING! So what should I do? Ignore him for good? He's so mean!!
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My first question to you would be that Is he your real dad?? even if he is....how can your mom allow him to let you sleep at the floor? do have any bros or sis?anyways coming to your problem, you see life is very small..and you have to accept the fact that he will never change...the only thing you can do is to collect a lot of proofs against his abusive behaviour...like video recording, voice recording etc. and show them to your mom so that she can understand his real nature... even if that does not help you can take the help of any elder who is near to your mom...who can understand your problem and make your mom understand your problem...any random person wont do becoz she will den only believe her husband..but if still your mom doesnt see to the point I guess there's nothing you can do except try to keep your temper cool infront of your mom so that he wont be able to provoke you into saying nething bad...and one small piece of advice... concentrate on your studies and career... and make yourself an identity so that u can secure your future...becoz in d midst of all these if your career suffers, you will find ur self in utter misery... please let me know wat happens next...tc
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This is very sad to me. He may not be abusing you physically, but he is abusing you mentally. You need to talk to a teacher someone that you trust that will help you out hun. No one deserves to be treated like you are being treated.
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