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My mom always said we have a money problem, don't do anything!
I've been pain for about 4 years. I mean not all the time but I definitely want to die when my mom said we have a problem with money, so don't pay too much, don't lend your money to anyone, don't hang out etc. I know the statement of my family well and I never waste money. Why she always talk to me like I'm a bad child. I know that some people might think how silly and weak am I for these words. It might meaningless for other, but not for me. I don't know either why these common words are so much influenced on my life. I'm seriously about this and it's worst for my life. I don't want to feel it so many times I feel like i'm dying.
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I think you are worried because you don't know the whole story. A money problem could mean not having enough to buy all the things you would like. Or it could mean not having enough money for the things you need. Like mortgage repayments or rent, like payments for heating and lighting. The first problem is annoying but we are all a bit like that at the moment. The second one is a real problem. Are you worried that this is what she meant? You might sit and talk to her and tell her that you do not want to be treated like a child and you want to know exactly what she means by money problem. Just how bad is it. When you do not know all the facts your mind will keep thinking of the words and it will make-up things. The worry all the time will make you feel unwell. Try to explain this to your mum. I think that saying we are short of money so do not spend too much, without giving you more information is not a very good idea. It will make you worry. There may not be too much to worry about if keeping both of you in a warm home is not in doubt. That is the only thing you really need to feel secure and safe isn't it?
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ahhh parents they can be pretty annoying at times
.. im stressed out with my mom and everyone around me. parents feel as if they always right and they will preach something to you like a million TIMES!!! ..i mean im not deaf i heard them the first time and i also know how to handle my life and whats good or not for me ..sometimes i wish everyone can disappear ...but when you think of it ,they only trying to help you.
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