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ok so.basically its bout my friend and my boyfriend and of course me
Ok so my best friend liked this boy ethan and
at that time i thought he was ugly
Then she developed a crush for him then this girl Cassandra came up to me and said ethan likes you and so ethan asked me out i said yes then i told my bestfriend we stopped talking for a week then she tells me she doesnt want us to be together around her and all she cares about is her me me me
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Honestly , I don't really know a 100 % on what's going on over there but i'll try my best . Let me share with you one sentence , ''The number one people want in this world acceptance , and the number one people fear is rejection . '' It might be that your best friend is acting in such a way because she felt rejected by her own crush right at the moment when she knew that Ethan has been actually liking you , eventually feeling heartbroken but don't worry , she'll heal .
Sweetie , you've the right to go out with him but i advise you to not be together when she's around . Respect her decision :) Also , if she only cares about herself , then let her be . You deserve to be happy but know your limits . You can still be a great friend to your best friend , listen to her tears and comfort her but if she chooses to stay away from you and carry the hatred towards your blooming relationship with Ethan around , then just let her be . We can't change other people in this world including their hearts .
You could try to ask for her forgiveness although you're actually innocent , but don't just be yourself . Be nicer , and smile to her although it would seem pointless . If she doesn't want to even talk to you anymore , then let it be but don't follow her footsteps . I've been through this before and my best friend and I did reconcile despite the fact that her crush developed an interest in me . Maybe , you could try being just friends with Ethan and when the time is perfect , you could be more than friends with him . Sooner or later , people will understand it including your best friend .
You deserve to be happy too :))
And , sorry for the late reply ! Anything else just alert me .
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