|
Heart break </3
I recently got out of a long distance relationship with my first love. Our relationship was more open because we felt it would put a strain on things since we live like 9 hours away. So basically she got a gf. I was suspicious but ignored it until I couldn't take it anymore and asked her about it.
Long story short, I'm heart broken. I spent a few days bawling my eyes out, and then am going through a stage of "Idc & as long as she's happy." But to be honest, I'm jealous, I'm hurt.
How do I get over her? How longis it going to take for it not to hurt anymore?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Firstly , take a deep , deep breath and calm down for a moment . You see , although she's your very first love , everything in this world happens for a reason . It's okay to be jealous and it's okay to be hurt and it's also okay for you to cry a lot for now because these feelings are inevitable but remember , only for now . Don't break down forever because she's not worth your tears and so on . your time is precious , so precious that you cannot waste it on anyone who doesn't realise that you are too . Take this fate as an experience to make you a stronger person and you will heal . Believe me . To be honest , it takes a certain amount of time to get over your loved one and move on . The thing is , you need to let her go for your own good and hope or pray that things'll get better because they will . For now , try your best to motivate yourself . I am sure that you were once a jubilant or a happy person , but somehow you changed yourself towards sadness because of this girl . Please , don't let yourself go . You deserve to be happy and stand up . Again , motivate yourself and assure that behind every ordeal , there's an endowment and behind every hardship , there's relief and behind every trial , there is happiness but it all depends on you . How would you manage yourself in a situation like this from now on ? One thing about this life is that you can have new chances i.e better relationship or more and that's why you must let her go . Remember , you deserve to be happy too and in fact , much more happier than she is if you know the right method . Consume your time with your friends , family or the neighbours and do the things you absolutely love and love every moment of your life . Live it to the fullest . Time will heal , it will . Seize the bitter seconds of your life and rise beyond the pain . You can also express everything in a secret journal but you need to be honest with yourself . Face the heartbreak now , but prepare yourself to embrace the happiness in the future . Hope for the best and don't let yourself down anymore okay ? Be smart and wise in managing your heart . Stand up now . You can go through this eventually trust me :)
]
More Questions: |