|
I'm 15 years old.. I find i don't act high fy with people much... I don't find friends of my type. . . I want to be a high fy girl and mix up with others easily... I don't want others look down at me. . . I want everyone to become friend with me.. I want to change my attitude, my style and the way i talk. . . I find, m so annoying. . . So, what should i do?
how can i change the way i talk?
What kind of dresses i should wear?
How should my attitude be?
How can i make others find m high fy?
How to mix up with people?
How do i become friendly with everyone?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Fashion and Styles?
I agree a lot with yoursfriend . You see , we humans are like droplets of water in the vast oceans but amazingly , some of the droplets sparkle ! And you , are different from others and unique in your very own way so don't change yourself to please others except if you want to change yourself in a positive way which can eventually strengthen your dignity. One thing you need to realise is , it's not easy to find true friends . Having 100 friends around you doesn't mean that all of them will be willing to listen to your tears . Don't worry , be yourself in a well-mannered or a cool way . Honestly , if you think that you're somewhat annoying , find solid evidences for that statement first . You might lose your self-esteem so always , always be positive and be realistic . Regarding the dresses , it's up to you as long as you're being the real you . One way that works well is , smile to everyone . Automatically , most of them will smile back at you and to be friendly , you need to be kind to everyone . Don't judge anyone , remember that and if people around you cannot accept who you are no matter how much you have tried , then that's their problem . The thing is , be good in communicating with people . Smiling is the best cure and it will always be :) If you're in a friendship with someone or more , be a great listener and comfort your friends . Respect them and respect yourself too . Be able to be alone , be independent . Time will help you if you keep on trying to produce more positive surroundings and change yourself for your own good , not because of the people . You are already special in this world , believe me so don't lose yourself ! No matter how old you are , examine yourself first and try to make alterations if needed . Love yourself for who you are and all the best :) Don't be shy .
]
hi !!!!
first of all i would like to suggest you to stop changing yourself. Stop thinking that you are annoying. You are what you always meant to be. Don't care about others what they think about you, Care instead how pretty you are from inside, what good things you have as compared to those who feels you are annoying, who don't want to be your friends and believe yourself first. People will accept you however you are if they want to, don't ever change yourself for any of those fake friends, find the good things in you and start believing in it from now and see those people will also accept this type of change in you.
]
More Questions: |