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I am not gay. :/
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Ok - So i have a boyfriend. who i have been with for 6 months... (not a long time) but...
thats not the point..
I have fallen head over heels for my english teacher. and i am not gay - i have just fallen for this woman. and i have no idea what to do....
(i think about her all the time, and i feel so much for her it is unreal) :/
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Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
If you are straight, yet have fallen head over heels for someone of the same gender, then, my dear, what you have is a "chick crush."
It means that you have found someone who is unbelievably awesome and smart and fun and cool. You want to bask in the presence of their brillance, you just want to heap upon them all of the love that you feel in your heart. And you ache to have them feel the same way.
Here is the REALLY cool secret about chick crushes: the things that we admire in our beloved are frequently traits that we have inside, that we have not yet discovered!
So what is it about this teacher that blows up your skirt? Is she hilarious? Creative? Inspirational? Stylish? Suss out *her* amazing traits, and then try to cultivate them within *yourself*!
I promise you that you are every bit as fabulous as your English teacher. Once you start to focus on these newly discovered strengths, this odd ache that you feel for her will probably calm down a bit. <3 Hang in there! <3
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Maybe heterosexual? It's people who aren't identified as gay or bi etc but have this unexplainable attraction to someone of the same sex. Like they may say "bu he/she is different" or "they're an exception", and that's okay. Some people will fall for someone's personality regardless of their gender but wouldn't go for anyone else of the same sex. But of course if you've had certain feelings before you could be bi perhaps? Or pansexual where you just fall for a person regardless of gender.
Don't stress about it too much, honestly.
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