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My mom: Could my mom be cheating on my dad or is it all in my head?
13/f So I went to go see who kept calling my mom and it was my neighbour and I know wasn't supposed to do this as it is an invasion of privacy but I read her texts to my neighbour. Some of them said: you mashed me up, you fucking killed me last night, never have I been fucked like that before, I don't want to hear about anything have to do with sex or ducks for a long time. I got confused. Then I read some texts to my ain't and they said: I just ended it with my friend, can't do it anymore even though the sex was even better than with Shaun. Could my mom be cheating on my dad or is it all in my head?
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It would appear that your mother is or was having an extramarital affair with the man next door. Even so it is not yours to confront your mother about. It is really something between her and your father. If he knows about it and has chosen to ignore it or forgive her that is up to him. Moms' sex life and marital affair(s) are her business not yours or your sisters.
Had you not been snooping you would not found out about her affair with the neighbor. To confront mom, as the previous writer suggests, tells her that you were snooping in to her private things, that you can't be trusted. That is the first thing she will come down on you for. Then she will come down on you for sticking your nose in to something you have no business in and could not possibly understand at your age.
When describing the word confront it means to attack. When you attack someone the will defend themselves. In the case of young child versus parent the best defence is a good offence. In you case that would be mom punishing you for snooping into her things and for challenging her on something that is none of your business.
There is no good outcome here for you in acknowledging to mom that you are aware of her infidelity. Neither is it going to be of any benefit to inform your dad.
My advices is try your best to ignore what you know. It appears mom has ended the affair. Treat mom as you always have and hope that dad never finds out. As long as what has happened has no ill effect against you and your sister nothing good can come from confronting or even acknowledging to your mom that you are aware of her affair.
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Your mother may be cheating on your dad. But the best thing to do is confront her. I mean you may have looked in her phone but you were worried and i'm sure she will understand. If she is cheating or was i do believe you need to talk to her about it and get everything straight. So, Talk to your mom, then go from there if she denies it you might want to tell her that you seen her phone.
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