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how can one intentionally hurt sumone he claims to love in a cruel fashion?
How does one pick up d pieces of her life after being dealt a horrible blow?How does she get rid of the naggin thoughts of ending her life?
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You don't go into much detail, so I'm left kind of guessing here. If someone claimed to love you and then hurt you terribly, you start by grieving properly. Have a good cry. Draw mustaches on all his pictures. Get it out of your system and it will help you face the future more calmly. Then, realize that he showed something of his true self and has done you a favor by doing so, enabling you to not waste any more of your life on him.
Secondly, you realize that you are still a whole person who has a life to live, has things to offer to the world. You refocus on those things and on healthy relationships and begin the process of healing. Those pieces will come back together, and they will make you wiser going forward.
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Losing someone you trully love is alot like having someone die. Your life has changed and you must go through a mourning period in much the same way. You will experience Denial about things left behind, Anger(which may last a while) just don't let it control you. Fear of what is to come, and the constant feeling of giving up. But keep in mind these are normal feelings. You're not the onlyone who has gone through this. There are alot of people who have beet this(including me). And so will you! You just hang in there a while longer and you"ll see a difference.
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heyy ..
think about positive things ..and that youre here in life for a reason ...and find someone to talk to .try to succeed and prove others wrong ...good luck <3
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