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Fidelity, trust, sex
My husband takes viagra, and due to an infidelity I've known of in the past I count them. We has sex last night and I counted them the next afternoon and noticed 2 and a half are missing. Is it possible or likely that he took 2 and a half at time? If so why would he take so much? They are 100mg each.
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God damn you women are screwed up. I can tell with blind faith that he's not cheating. have you ever tried viagra? I did. at the start, 1 was enough. Now 3 isnt sufficient. After a while the body grows to resist every sort of medication, including viagra
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That sounds a bit excessive. With that much in his system, he'd probably still have an erection even now! It may or may not be a sign of cheating. If you are truly worried about it, there are three ways you can go about it. I personally recommend the first:
1. Communication. You don't need to bring up the fact that you've been counting the pills. Infidelity is a consequence of other symptoms. Ask him if there are any issues between you two. Are you less intimate? Less passionate? Too much/too little space? My woman and I have been together almost 8 years and we still have issues like these. However, because we communicate so well, we can catch these problems before they develop into real issues; especially since they have in the past. Just a week ago I had to tell her I was feeling neglected and unpassionate, and we have been working on that.
2. Far too honest communication. Tell him you've been counting and you want an explanation. Don't be overly aggressive or accusatory. Give him a fair chance to explain and listen without obvious distrust. If his answers don't match up, you can feel free to interrogate further. If its innocent, he may be upset that you don't have 100% faith in him, but point out that his past actions are the reason for that. This is the option my girlfriend tends to pick. It's upsetting to me, but in a way I brought it on myself so I get over it pretty quickly. If he gets very angry very quickly, that's usually a sign of infidelity and he hopes anger will shame you out of the subject. Do not falter.
3. Be sneaky. Go through his phone, email, etc. without his knowledge. This is a bad plan, especially if it fails. If he has done no wrong and finds out, you are in for one hell of a fight. Of course, if you do find something, you have tangible evidence and can perhaps even catch him red-handed.
Which path you take should be determined on how much you believe he is unfaithful. If its just a passing thought, be gentle. If it seems like a replay of the past, do what you need to do.
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