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Thanks for the advice just a bit more to add to it :)
Thanks so much for the advice! I just wanted to say I confronted him on why he has been distancing himself and he said it is because we fight all the time. He thought if he did that we wouldnt fight. Well ignoring me doesnt help that matter. When he brought up about wanting space he said all he wants is to be able to go out to the garage and work on his truck when he wants. I have never said he couldn't in fact I have told him a few times to do that and he says he doesnt feel like it. The thing is though he wants space but yet I can be making supper, cleaning house doing many things that need to get done and he will call me over and over until i come to him he expects me to pamper him the minute he says so but he wants me to give him space... He got mad at me that I dont trust him yet about not cheating on me. He made the immature comment that I should go hang with some guys so then he can have his trust back! Why would I do that to just make it even.....he doesnt have his own running vehicle right now and he works hard but doesnt bring in as much money as I do so in convo he has said he would be screwed if we broke up that he would have nowhere to go.So I really think you are right i think he is just too chicken to leave.
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Wow, what a guy. Sounds like he'd be shooting himself in the foot in a lot of ways without you. You seem patient and kind, but I'd say it's time to put your foot down and boot his ass out. It doesn't seem like you'll be losing out of much. He, on the other hand, is screwed. After a short time he'll realize the cons outweigh the pros and he'll come crawling back. That's when you get to shrug, or point and laugh, or say "I told you so." Whatever your preference is.
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