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Worried about fiancé leaving me. My fiancée and I have been together for almost 5 years. A year ago we had a beautiful child. Our relationship is great, he makes me happy and he's a great father. Before I got pregnant our sexual relationship was great, zero complaints. Then I had our daughter and the sex drive I once had is completely gone. We have sex maybe once every three months. It's physically painful and he almost acts like thats an excuse I use to get out of sleeping with him. This has been like this for over a year. I've told him numerous times that he isn't the problem, it's me. I feel like maybe I need to see a doctor. The last thing I want to do is have him leave me because we aren't sleeping together. Every time we talk about it always ends up in a fight and then we don't talk for days. I just need some advice on what to do.. Thank you to anyone who helps.
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Go to the doctor. And, do different things for him. Oral sex, play with him. You don't have to have physical sex. You can have outersex. Like humping or rubbing. And let him know that you're going to see what's going on with your vagina. ]
I think you should def see a doctor also I am a strong believer in pleasing your man theres a saying if you dont someone else will but there are other ways of pleasing him maybe you should look at videos you can get some ideas that way and if you dont feel comfortable then you should not try it I hope you find this advise helpful. take much carfe of yourself go see a doctor, ]
You should go to the doctor, the fact that you are in physical pain during sex should have been an alarm for you when it first started. Go to the doctor, maybe even bring your fiance' and find out what is going on. And see where it goes from there. ]
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