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I'm so confused and conflicted about this guy
I started talking talking to this guy I always liked after recently learning that he feels the same. I ask him about his first time and he says he lost it at 12 to some 20 yr old friend of the family, and he talked about it like it was the greatest moments of his childhood, as if that's not considered rape at all. He kept going into detail, all hype about it, remeniscing and stuff. It creeped me out but I didnt say how I really felt. He "wanted" a relationship but I wasnt very sure. He would say stuff like "im gonna kidnap you and marry you" Then he kept asking me if I loved him, which is equally creepy but I just told him what he wanted to hear. Then he accused me of lying and only wanting him for sex. Then he just stopped talking to me. I'm so confused. Do you think I should reach out to him? do you think i should steer clear? Do you think its because of the story he told me? How much of an impact is a guy's first time? Am I just over reacting and he is just a jerk?
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Since you're asking this question, it's obvious you have hesitation. If you ever feel hesitant, don't do it. You need to talk with your parents, a friend, anyone, and tell them what's going on. It's for your safety and you are not overreacting about protecting yourself.
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