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My boyfriend doesn't want anyone to know we're going out
So I have this boyfriend and we've been going out 30 days but we didn't talk for like three days but I tryed to make it work I went on fb and messaged him no reply tryed to talk to him face to face he just siad hi and I tryed Ossining notes during class but nothing back so I brook up with him he went on fb and messaged me saying that I'm a bitch and that he never going to talk to me agian then he siad he still loves me and wanted me back
So I went back with him because he siad hell make it work but it's been a whole week and nothing we only talk on fb and we've been going out for 30 days remember and we haven't kissed or hugged or even held hands
(btw I'm thirteen years old and plz dont say I'm to young I really need help)
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You sound rather upset, but I can't quite work out what's going on?? I reckon you've definitely got your wires crossed badly. I'd say, draw a line under the last 30 days or so and start fresh with him. If he's as difficult as he sounds again, forget it. You might be ready for a proper boyfriend with hugs and handholding, but he might not be. Girls do tend to mature earlier. Good luck!
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Sweetheart , I'm 13 Too . And Youu Know What Honestly If He Doesn't Want People To Know Youu Two Are Together Than Youu Shouldn't Be In A Relationship . If He Really Likes Youu He Needs To Show It NOT Hide It ! Tell Him To Change That Or Your Done With Him . He Needs To Open Up Or You Just Basically Friends .
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Might I start off with saying, while you don't want to hear it you are young. You're how old 13? You should not be worrying about serious relationships right now. And since you want an answer as if you're an adult I'll tell you this, if you don't think it's right then it isn't. You aren't thinking that way for no reason. There are other fish in the sea. You need to be paired with someone who shares the same values and goals in life as you. Respect and honest are key and if those two aren't in the mix then end it now. Really you are young, and you should be worrying about school and yourself. You are your first priority right now. One day you're going to get married and have kids, and then you'll have other priorities, but until then take advantage of the private time and freedom you have now and stop rushing. You'll regret it when you can't go back to change the present.
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