How do I no he likes me my pastor is married n I find my self thinking about him all the time we used to text alot but he stopped I no he is attracted to me he makes me no that the way he talks n looks at me n plays around sometimes I can't stop the way I feel n I no its so roung !!!! But what do I do n how do I now he really likes me I made it clear to him how I felt but in a way of joking so now what ???? this is so hard I love god n love the church n don't want to hurt no one but it is all I can think about help
NinjaNeer answered Tuesday October 30 2012, 4:02 pm: There's only one thing I need to hear to be able to give you my answer:
He's married.
Married means off limits. Period. End of story. I don't care how hot or interested or amazing he is, for you that should mean that he's not even possibly available. You don't want to be the other woman. You really, really don't.
It takes a scummy man to cheat, but it takes an equally scummy woman to help him cheat. Both are at fault, and you don't want to even come close to putting yourself in that situation. Not to mention that I'm pretty sure that most religions frown upon adultery.
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