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bf watching porn?!!
Hi guys so i have been dating my bf for a year and we are in a long distance relationship ... i watched porn a few times jsut because sometimes when i did get in the mood he was not here ... n usually we have webcam sex .... but just today i asked him if he watches porn n he said "i dont watch as much porn as i used to" ... then i asked him if he still does n he said ya ... i felt soo uneasy .. cause i thought he watched me on webcam n was happy in that .. but now i find out he watches .. i feel weird ... i know guys do that so its a normal thing .., n since i also watched it a few time.. it should be fine ... but i dont want him to start expecting things from meh like do that or that ... n now m like all the things he tells meh to do on webcam is a way of making him reach n he is making me do what they do on webcam like show meh this in this way... n recently he said we do it too much on the webcam ... well if he is watching porn n doing it with meh then ya maybe its too much for him .. while i only do it on webcam with him .. n watched porn only a few times n i dont rll like em that much ... now i dont know how to react on this topic .. pls help meh out .. i know m insecure ... i dont have the perfect figure like those porn stars do .. m jsut soo worried ... n i dont want to lose him!! thx
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You need to relax. This really isn't a problem or situation where he doesn't think you are beautiful. What's happening is that he's away from you for an extended period and needs sexual relief. He's using porn and the webcam with you to achieve that without cheating.
He doesn't like the girls on those DVDs any more than you. It's just a fantasy thing. I think his saying you do the webcam thing too much is a case of him missing that with you and it bothering him. Ask him what he meant by it.
As far as when you do get together for sex I'm 100% sure that he's not comparing what they do on screen to you. The thing is though that if he or you saw something you thought looked fun from said videos you could always explore it. However, he's not expecting you to be like Jenna Jameson when he gets back.
It's the same thing when you watch porn yourself and don't have any expectation of him. It's all fantasy and can't harm him or you both or the relationship. Most males watch it who have partners as well as are single. It doesn't mean anything. I would just relax.
Don't worry about how those girls look either most of it is fake plastic surgery anyways and not reflective of real women. Trust me if he were shallow and didn't like your body or its curves he would be long gone. Although you don't like porn it's safe to relax and let him watch as it does him no harm.
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Watching porn is completely normal as long as the guy doesn't watch it so much to the point where that is all he does. You are making this out to much more then it is. Him watching porn doesn't mean he is not happy with nor does he not enjoy watching you on webcam it just means he is being a typical guy.
Guess what? I watch porn and I am married. Does this mean that I do not enjoy my husband? Absolutely not. Porn is normal
You watch it, so why is it a problem if he does? If you dot want too loose him then my advice would be to chill out and stop being so jealous over something so small
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