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Mixed Signals
Hey,I got your advice on a question,and i tried it.I didn't sit with him,but i sat at a table across from his,and when he would glance at me,i would look at him,and smile,and he smiled back.
I mirrored him like you said.
That got me good results.
He came over to the table I was sitting,and talked to my brother who I was sitting right next to.He came over there,and stood right on side of me while talking to my brother.
He did that twice.
Then when lunch was over,I was walking to my class with my bestfriend.
When Jose (the guy i like) and his bestfriend Malik,was walking behind me.
WHen I felt someone pull my bookbag,and I turned around and it was him.
I turned back around and finished talking to my friend.But Jose wouldn't stop messing with me.
He kept kicking my bookbag which I honestly hated,and thought was disrespectful,but didn't say that.
WHen I told him to stop,he didn't.
Then he started walking beside me all the way to my class.
And I noticed he kept looking at me all the way there.
But,a day later,he ignored me again,like he used to.He didn't say anything to me at all.
To me,this is really confusing for me,because he's sending me mixed signals.
Does he like me or not?And what does this mean?
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Hi. You must be Jazz. It's sound. You're pushing buttons and getting responses. Well played! Human emotions are very complex. He's unsure too, he's sounding YOU out too remember, looking for that sign, 'she'll accept me.' Bit like boxers getting the measure of each other in the first few rounds with a few tentative jabs. Keep putting out the positive vibes in the ways we talked about, spot the opportunities and grab them. Sounds like he had a go and feels it missed the mark...so he's gone back in his shell a bit and trying to ignore you. Keep going Jazz! If he just dropped in your lap you probably wouldn't want him. He'd just be another flirt right? You'll get there! CJB xx
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