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is it worth it to find out who this guy likes
14/f
I'm a sophomore in high school, and there's this senior I really like (for almost a year now). We're both in band, and that's how we met last year. Anyways, I'm kind of at the point where I know I should get over him, and I'm really trying, but it's extremely hard considering how often I see him (we have 2 classes together plus marching band stuff). Also, he is friends with this one girl who basically flirts with every one of her guy friends. I feel ashamed for feeling like this, but I get jealous sometimes. And then there's this freshman who started talking to him a lot recently. She's been asking him a lot about his previous relationships and stuff. Yesterday, we were all at a band contest. While most of the people were off our bus going to the restroom, I was there with my best friend, the freshman, the guy I like, and one other person. My friend and I were talking a few seats in front of them, so I could hear what they were saying. I tried not to listen, but she asked him really loudly who he liked and if she was in band. I guess he told her because she kind of yelled out "that's so cute". During that, she glanced back at me a few times, but I don't know if it was just because she didn't want me to be there. Anyways, I feel like if I know who the guy likes, that it would help me get over him because I don't want to be some love-sick girl who likes somebody who likes someone else. But at the same time, I know it's going to hurt especially if it's one of my friends (which is a possibility). Is it a good idea to try talking to the girl to see if she'll tell me? We know each other, but we aren't good friends or anything. Or should I just keep on doing what I was doing before?
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i think youu should ask her and find out who likes maybe once youu find out ...things will happen if he likes youu then be happy ;D if he doesnt then still be happy for him ...and maybe youull get over him ?
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The decision all depends on you alone :) In my mind , well to me , the question on who he likes shouldn't be in your head because somehow , it brings you nowhere . If he likes you , then of course you would be joyful and jubilant but what good can it bring ? I know it is hard for you to forget him but sometimes , you need think from another perception . If he likes you or your friend , then just let it be because if he is meant to be yours , he will still come to you one day . You are still 14 sweetie , and you still have a lot of things to achieve and gain , so don't think about this matter very seriously . I just don't want you to get carried away because of this , althought it might be love . Now is not the time . Appreciate your age now and don't let him affect you in any single way , except if it leads you to goodness .
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If you really like him then tell him how you feel and don't be afraid to let out your feelings. Your a sophomore don't worry if you get hurt its not the end of the world for you . Learn from it and move on because lifes to beautiful to be sad and maybe god has something better planned for you. Don't be afraid to take chances because then youl never know what could of been. Tell him how you feel and if he says he don't like you well just take it in and at least be proud you had the courage to tell him. Never be afraid to express yourself .
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