Member Since: October 14, 2012 Answers: 2 Last Update: October 14, 2012 Visitors: 501
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Okay, so my name is Allison &' I'm f/14. So, my guy friend James is 15 and we both really like each other. Except that I know that he really wants to have sex.... I want to know if its wrong that he fingers me &' we get a little more intimate. I honestly think that I love him &' I think he loves me too. (link)
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Remember you are 14 and I know love has no age limit ,but you are a girl and you should have a little bit more respect for yourself. What if he has sex with you and after that he leaves you ? What would you think if your daughter was 14 and was getting fingered? you would be angry and remember guys only want one thing. Just first think about it and look into your heart if he really does love you and if you really love him. Just because you want to have sex doesn't mean its love , its not just about that. If you don't respect your self then nobody will. If he really loves you then he will wait to have sex with you.
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I'm a sophomore in high school, and there's this senior I really like (for almost a year now). We're both in band, and that's how we met last year. Anyways, I'm kind of at the point where I know I should get over him, and I'm really trying, but it's extremely hard considering how often I see him (we have 2 classes together plus marching band stuff). Also, he is friends with this one girl who basically flirts with every one of her guy friends. I feel ashamed for feeling like this, but I get jealous sometimes. And then there's this freshman who started talking to him a lot recently. She's been asking him a lot about his previous relationships and stuff. Yesterday, we were all at a band contest. While most of the people were off our bus going to the restroom, I was there with my best friend, the freshman, the guy I like, and one other person. My friend and I were talking a few seats in front of them, so I could hear what they were saying. I tried not to listen, but she asked him really loudly who he liked and if she was in band. I guess he told her because she kind of yelled out "that's so cute". During that, she glanced back at me a few times, but I don't know if it was just because she didn't want me to be there. Anyways, I feel like if I know who the guy likes, that it would help me get over him because I don't want to be some love-sick girl who likes somebody who likes someone else. But at the same time, I know it's going to hurt especially if it's one of my friends (which is a possibility). Is it a good idea to try talking to the girl to see if she'll tell me? We know each other, but we aren't good friends or anything. Or should I just keep on doing what I was doing before? (link)
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If you really like him then tell him how you feel and don't be afraid to let out your feelings. Your a sophomore don't worry if you get hurt its not the end of the world for you . Learn from it and move on because lifes to beautiful to be sad and maybe god has something better planned for you. Don't be afraid to take chances because then youl never know what could of been. Tell him how you feel and if he says he don't like you well just take it in and at least be proud you had the courage to tell him. Never be afraid to express yourself .
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