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HELPPPP! hooking up??
hey im 14/f and ive never really liked anyone or done anything obviously i could of but i chose not to and turned down a lot of guy bc they were all dbags but i really like this guy and i think he likes me and hes like a good guy. we are soo close we literally talk about everythinggg. and we feel so comforatable around each other. but we are still attracted to each other and he wants to hook up so i said ok. but then i realized i never kissed a guy let alone made out so can someone give me advice. and i think its just going to be us two hanging out. what should i expect and do? and will this ruin our friendship? i feel like it will make us both want to be in a relationship after we hook up becasue we are like really good friends and we hooked up so why shouldnt we go out, right? thanks!
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The best advice I can give you, that I wish I would have been given a your age, is do not hook up with him. Ask yourself these questions, Do you Love him? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with him? Do you want a baby with him? Would he be a good dad? If any of these is a no than don't waste your virginity on someone your not even sure about. You guys can continue being friends without being sexual. And frankly if he is putting you i this position he isn't a good friend in the first place because you guys are way too young to even be thinking about this.
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If he just wants to "hook up," he's not worth it. If he actually wants a relationship, go for it. But there is a chance that you guys won't make it and it could ruin the friendship. I hope all things go well!
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I think you should ask his guy bestfriend to ask him if he likes you like that. If he does, then ask him out, but then say, "if we break up, we will still be best friends." sometimes it works, and sometimes it doesn't. I have never tried myself but my bestfriends have, and they are still friends with their guy bestie. I mean, if he says no and you're okay with this, see if you guys could be friends with benefits. I mean, it works for me. I hope this helps. :D
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