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Does this mean he's crushing on me too,or not?
Hi,I'm Jazz and i'm 14/f.
I have a crush on my brothers friend Jose,who's almost sixteen.
I think he likes me,because of the way I act,but I'm not sure.
Well,I always catch him staring at me.No matter if I'm all the way across the room,or right next to him.Once he's noticed I caught him,he looks away.
When I sat at the table at lunch with my brother,I was about to sit down farther down the table,but Jose moved over,so I could sit next to him,while my brother was on the other side.But the wierd thing was,once I sat there,he was quite until I left.But he would still stare at me.
And friday I was talking to his and my friend Shawn,and Jose was walking in front of me and Shawn,and at first he turned around and looked at me.Then he mentioned something about SHawn that was way off topic,just to talk to me.
Is he really crushing on me,or is is all in my head?
And if he is,since I like him too,what should I do?
And lastly,how can I get him to admit he likes me?
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Ease he wants you to know he likes you, and thinks you're attractive. What I would do is start talking to him random conversations on whatever you and him could be into and just keep on getting to know him until you both get into each others personal space and then the attraction could have a great chance to become stronger and mutual and let's see who will start throwing the spark step first ;)
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Hi Jazz. Well, traditionally it's up to us guys to make the first move. I honestly think that however much the sexes become equal, it'll always be that way...and quite right. I'd say he likes you. What holds him back can be summed-up in a sentence. Fear of rejection. In your teens it's your worst nightmare (and between you and me, it doesn't get THAT much easier to handle as a guy gets older either!) Now you don't want to appear 'forward' or predatory...quite right. So this sort of stalemate occurs...and it feeds on itself and grows and grows. And golden opprtunities pass you by. But I can see you've got your heart set on the lucky lad. Want some tips eh? When you're sitting close, angle you body towards him, cross your legs towards him, not away from him. When you speak lean a little towards him. Use 'body language'. You've got to get a conversation going. Find out what he likes...cars...favourite band? Find out a bit about it too and make that your subject. We tend to 'mirror' the other person when we speak to them. When you start to speak look him full in the eye and smile full-on. Mirroring means he'll tend to smile back. If he likes you, which I feel sure he does he WILL smile back for sure. Try to speak slowly and calmly and low, don't let your voice get too fast or shrill. Cool and calm is sexy in a girl, shrieking will tend to make him recoil or 'jump back' a bit. When the conversation pauses, keep that full eye-contact up...for just a little bit 'too long' in the silence, if you get my drift. If you're sitting close enough, watch the speed he breathes at, and get in step with it. Deliberately mirror his moves at first, if he drops one shoulder for instance while you're chatting, drop yours. After a while you'll be doing it naturally, without thinking, but deliberately get it going from the start. Reinforce your answers. Nod with a yes, shake your head with a no. 'That's exactly how I feel'. is a win-win answer when he gives an opinion on something. YOU decide when the meeting is over, get in first and make as if you're leaving. That'll make him act to try and keep you there. He'll ask you out when he feels there's a chance you'll accept basically. There you go, a fair bagful of subtle 'secret weapons' I wish I'd known at your age. Have fun!
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Jazz he defiantly like's you . You should get him alone in a room with just the 2 of you and tell him you like him and he will defiantly say he like's you 2.
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