15/f and this guy i have classes with is really nice and funny and cute. even one class i dont have with him he walks me to class. and everyone thinks we like each other. hes always teasing me and shit so i get it. but my ex best friend of like 6 years we also have like every same classes together with this guy. and i feel like this guy throws himself at me more than her, but sometimes they talk more because she throws her self at him. and we still talk alot so i was like do u like him and she said no were just friends. but we all 3 are in a group and we were sitting together and he flirts with the both of us and like out of no where she just decides to peck him on his lips and he didnt do anything. but then he acts like he likes me. and hes not like a player or anything and he doenst like me for my body or anything. it's just so anonying becasue like even though we've had a fallen out me and my friend i love her but she's making it really hard for me to go by him or her or even to continue to flirt with him. but in my gut i feel like he only does it to make me jealous, becuase its mainly her throwing herself at him. this also kinda happened with another guy i liked and it didnt trun out well...what should i do? thanksss
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ValerieG answered Wednesday October 10 2012, 9:48 pm: I honestly think you should listen to your gut, you know whats best for you right away. Your ex best friend isn't worth your time nor is the guy. Hint that ex means experience from the past, you move on. and youre probabaly right with the guy. If i was in your position i would think the same thing, he's just doing that just to see who he can get and hes probably thinking hes cool having two chicks trying to get with him. I would keep your distance, not throw yourself at him. Just stick to being just friends, nothing else. He'll soon get the hint that your not playing this game and either stop flirting with you or not be your friend. But you have to have a strong mind-set and continue to do this. You cant go a couple days of it and go back to throwing yourself at him, you would just playing games with your self. So just move on, a guy thats only wants you will make you worth his time only. I hope I helped. [ ValerieG's advice column | Ask ValerieG A Question ]
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