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please reply asap: What reason should I tell my girlfriend I want to have sex with her?
my girlfriend and i have now dated for 11 months. today she said she wants to have sex with me n i said the same. then she asked me dat y do i wanna hav sex with her? n i said cauz i love her. n she says dat thats not a proper reason. she's asking me to giv her a proper reason n i wud need your help. what reason shud i give her??
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Because you trust her and feel she trusts you?
Because your both mature enough to understand that it wont effect the close bond you guys have?
Because your totally happen with how the relationships going and if shes ready, would like to progress it futher (though highlight that if she doesn't want to yet the relationship wont change)
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Ask her what the hell she wants to hear.
Ask her what she is looking for from you and what is on her mind.
Tell her is disrespectful and unkind to declare her partners' feelings 'not good enough' without an explanation or discussion.
Tell her it's rude to 'test' your partner and demand they read your mind.
Tell her that if wants to talk about sex - you are game - but she can't shut you out like that. Talking takes two people. Just like sex.
And she needs to talk to you like an equal, not talk down to you like you are a student and she's your teacher.
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