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How should I find out if hes into me or just trying to bang whatever walks:
Im 18,high school graduate and still a virgin. Im in the transition of moving out into a house with my cousin(age 20) his baby mama(19) and their kid(3). My cousins friends starting coming over when I was 17 and 1 of them told everyone i was cute and flirted the other one flirted and we were vibing you could tell he was into me but once i told him i was 17 and he was 19 he stopped and took some steps back. Now Im 18 and ones 21 and the others 20. They come over almost everyother weekend to drink and chill. One weekend i ended up sleeping in the middle of the 20 yr old well call him(dave) and one of the friends hes pretty cute to. Daves head was by my feet(not cute) and so was my head next to his. He began touching my butt trying to move in on me and then he started grabbing my hand under the blankets putting it on his stuff but we werent talking cause his friend was in the bed,(i know not cool).He was trying me to either give him a "Hand" lol or a BJ all night. Well I obviously have feelings for him if i flirt and was willing to touch him. Well the next time I saw him he was trying to get at some girl at a kickback and my cousin well call her (a.t.) told me thats fucked up and hes 20 and Im not his gf so who am I to blame him but I felt bad. So last weekend they came over and (a.t) was gonna drink shes 17 and never had the whole night they were trying to get her to drink more and more and she was buzzed hard and me,some guy(a friend),dave, and (a.t) were laying on the bed in that order and he was hugging her and rubbing her butt. and she told me the next morning I just wanted to be comforted. I know hes probably playing the feild and me being a virgin might be a turn off but I know hes kindof interested but hes a huge flirt and I want to know how i can get closer to him and how i should flirt with him? Also do you think hes into (a.t.) more than me? and why is she doing that when she knows what happened with me and him? Also not to be mean Im honestly prettier and I cant see him with her at all but I think me and him would look really good together,Just saying.
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Hi there. First off, don't let the fact that you're a virgin make you less confident in yourself. Guys actually admire that in a girl because they know she's not one to have sex with just anyone or they know she considers the guy she's dating carefully. For most good guys, that is a turn on. And considering you guys are all around 18-21, I don't think being a virgin should be a bad or unusual thing. Anyway, from what you described about Dave touching you from under the sheet and trying to let you give him a hand job, and then you find out he was messing around with A.T who's only 17. You said he didnt want to talk to you much when you were 17, so why is he feeling on her too and she's 17? Also, why do you like someone who's such a huge flirt like that? Do you really think that Dave likes A.T? If you think there's something there, do you think it's worth a fight over? If there is, my suggestion would be to ask Dave what's the deal between him and A.T? Just talk to him and see what he says? I wouldn't go to A.T much for advice just because, if she likes him too, then she'll give you bad advice and try to get at Dave mroe than you. Also, if a guy is interested in someone, he shouldn't be playing the field infront of two potential girls. For me, if me, my crush, a girl, and some other friends were hanging out, it would be a huge turn off to me to know he's flirting with the girl at one point and with me, even if he's just playing the field. But anyway, I wish you luck.
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