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BOY PROBLEMS: I am not dating him... but I want him to date someone I get long with because...
1. Sorry for the length 2.There's this guy tht i like.But then my friend told me tht he liked her and then I stopped liking him.But then a week later he didn't look like he liked her tht much so I started liking him again.But then today i found out that he was going out wit one of the girls i don't like and now I'm mad.And when ever he says hi to me I kinda freak out ( I still manage to say hi back tho).Even tho cant date him I still want to know if he likes me back or not and if he is gonna date someone I want it to be someone I actually can get along with.I need some help I dont know what to do.I can barely look at him. So i need help quick.
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Okay what you need to do is stop going on and off of liking boyz, but what you can do is come into skool with beautiful hair, make-up, pretty clothes (etc) then see if he'll take you. If it doesn't work out try to get his attention and then if he says hi or something try to smile and don't be nervous i have the same exact problem as you but i think you are already beautiful in the inside and outside but if you have crush on him really bad you might want to make sure he the right guy tho cause he might be a player or something. and one more thing to add don't get those girls in ur head. :)
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See here is the thing, you can't control somebody. You shouldn't be judgmental of someone he likes, because if you really like him you wouldn't react that way. Let me tell you something, this is my last year of high school and half the people i thought i hated was just me being immature and not having a good reason to hate someone. I swore up and down i hated every girl that crossed my boyfriends path, but i came to find out that not all girl are evil. It is his choice who he will date and you have no control over that. What you can do though is regardless , tell him how you feel and if he chooses to stay with that girl , then you can't be mad over that, people can't help who they like, and hey by the way, never let a guy come between you and your friend. Honestly if some type of love triangle is going on you don't need to be apart of it. It will only cause you more stress than you need. So my advice pretty much is worry about yourself for now, because your worrying too much about making other people happy , or other peoples problems. It their problems let them deal with them. Things will work out the way they are suppose to, just be patient.
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