Member Since: September 28, 2012
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Last Update: September 28, 2012
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ok, so i have had this thing with a guy i liked for a few months now. we both like each other and everything, but we aren't going out yet. anyways, i hang out with this group of girls during lunch and ever since i told them he and i have a thing they started bringing up info. about how they have had a thing with him too and then they started calling him a "homie hopper" but the thing is, that i didnt know any of this cause he and i just met last year, and all these things my friends are telling me happened before he and i even had a thing. should i take into consideration the whole "homie hopper" thing, or should i just give him a shot since he really does make me happy? (link)
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okay , you sound a lot like me and my boyfriend. We talked for 6 months before we even started dating. He had a thing for my best friend before, but honestly it doesn't bother me because it was only a crush. Me and my boyfriend talked last year , but only as friend, we barely knew each other. Word of advice though, he makes me happier than any man could. We have been happily "together" (talking/ dating) for a year now. I love him more than anything in the world. So many people dislike me at my school , but you know i take it as people are jealous because they think i'm better than them. All these people had so much stuff to say about me and him and still do. People talk all the time. Don't let them run your life. And hey even if he screw you over, you will learn from your mistake. but don't ever go off of what other people say, regardless how close you are to them. Find out for sure for yourself.
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1. Sorry for the length 2.There's this guy tht i like.But then my friend told me tht he liked her and then I stopped liking him.But then a week later he didn't look like he liked her tht much so I started liking him again.But then today i found out that he was going out wit one of the girls i don't like and now I'm mad.And when ever he says hi to me I kinda freak out ( I still manage to say hi back tho).Even tho cant date him I still want to know if he likes me back or not and if he is gonna date someone I want it to be someone I actually can get along with.I need some help I dont know what to do.I can barely look at him. So i need help quick. (link)
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See here is the thing, you can't control somebody. You shouldn't be judgmental of someone he likes, because if you really like him you wouldn't react that way. Let me tell you something, this is my last year of high school and half the people i thought i hated was just me being immature and not having a good reason to hate someone. I swore up and down i hated every girl that crossed my boyfriends path, but i came to find out that not all girl are evil. It is his choice who he will date and you have no control over that. What you can do though is regardless , tell him how you feel and if he chooses to stay with that girl , then you can't be mad over that, people can't help who they like, and hey by the way, never let a guy come between you and your friend. Honestly if some type of love triangle is going on you don't need to be apart of it. It will only cause you more stress than you need. So my advice pretty much is worry about yourself for now, because your worrying too much about making other people happy , or other peoples problems. It their problems let them deal with them. Things will work out the way they are suppose to, just be patient.
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