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He's more experienced than me....
15/Female
Okay, well me and my boyfriend just stated dating not to long ago. And I'm he has been with more people than I have relationship wise. And I have only kissed a guy once. But, what my question is about is how do I become not nervous kissing him? And how do I become not nervous making out with him (would be my first time making out).
I don't want to feel like an idiot....
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the best thing for you to do would be have the confidence because if you are scared and nervous he will be able to tell. Just be yourself and dont be scared, because it will come naturally. and when he initiates the kiss just go with it and follow along and i garantee you it will flow easily. good luck and i hope i helped :)
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There is a first time for everything, making out is just one of them. From this point forward in your teenage and adult years there will be many firsts.
Anytime you do something for the first time you must set you boundaries and your rules. Sort of a road map. You would never start a trip someplace you have never been before without mapping out the directions before hand would you? In this instance with a boy more experienced then you it is important that you decide beforehand just how far you will allow him to go while making out.
Every boy in his teenage years is going to pressure a girl to allow him to go as far as he can go. His ultimate goal is to have sex. You and he are ofthe same age you may have the desire and the ability though you are way to young from the stand point of maturity. Set your boundaries and stick to them.
I didn't have daughters though I do have two nieces who lived near me when they were teenagers. I told them what I am about to tell you. "Call me if a boy goes to far and refuses to take you home, I will come and get you."
I suggest you make that same arrangement with your parents or another trusted adult. Never give in to a boy just because you fell trapped.
If you set your boundaries as to how you will allow him to touch you and kiss you; stick to them. This is how you earn respect as a women. NO has to mean NO.
This may not have been the advice you are looking for. Then again there is no handbook as to how to make out with someone. It is something you learn by doing. Just remember when to say STOP and when to say NO. Even if it feels good, once you reach your boundaries you have to put the brakes on or you will loose control. It is very important in these early years of dating that you, the girl, keep control of these situations.
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