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two guys -.-
ok im 17/f
i like two guys but i need to narrow it down to one, cause i cant lead them both on. i have no idea so im looking for your opinions.
max: he is 19. At uni, works. Not the best of looking but really nice with a good sense of humor, really smart and is a challenge (which i like), he rides a motor bike which is a bonus but down side is he is VERY religious and we have very different views on the topic, generally leads to a massive debate or fight.
Mitch: 18, works. really good looking, very caring and he is a good listener, always telling me he misses me and always asking to see me again. down side we dont have alot in common, he doesnt get my sense of humor and sometimes i think its an act.
so im stuck, there both great guys! how do i know which one to choose? and how do i let the other one know i cant be more than friends?
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Hi!
First let me say it's always tough picking and choosing between guys. So, I feel for you. I personally think the better choice seems to be Mitch, because he's caring and he LISTENS to you and he seems to want to spend time with you, guys have other things that they can do with their time so if he's willing to spend time with you out of plenty of other things then he probably does like you. Not to mention he's good looking which is a plus! You say you think it's an act sometimes, doubt is natural especially for girls, and we need to be told things for confirmation so ask him how he feels about you. He doesn't get your sense of humor..maybe the more time he spends around you he'll get used to it and the not much in common.. well they say opposites attract but I don't really know if that's true. Sorry! The other guy, Max, the religious differences can be tolerated. You can both respect each other's views and not boost about your own religion. At least, he is religious though. Sad to say, I cannot choose for you. You've still got to make this hard decision on your own just take in consideration the pros and cons of both. A LIST WOULD ACTUALLY HELP!! And if they come out even, which should be unlikely, well you can either choose neither or you can pick whomever you have the most chemistry with.
The other hard part! How to let the other one down gently. Hmm.. You can use the famous line "it's not you, it's me" whatever that means. Or you can take a better approach and meet with the other guy face-to-face and tell him that you just don't think he's right for you but that you would really like for him to continue to be your friend; or put that in your own words. Hope this helps you out :)
-A.B
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I like Mitch...hey, opposites attract.
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