Question Posted Wednesday September 12 2012, 7:20 pm
So a couple of weeks I posted whether or not I should break up with my boyfriend and I finally did. I feel horrible how things ended and I think I acted out of rage. I texted him " I don't want or need you in my life and I'm done." He replies "I definitely trusted you." I'm thinking he trusted me to not hurt him? Now I'm starting to miss him and second guessing whether or not I made the wrong decision..
Will he ever forgive me?
Should I approach him first and talk to him face to face?
Not sure what to do..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AdviceMistress answered Thursday September 13 2012, 2:37 pm: Not sure if I saw your post before so I'm not sure why you broke up with your boyfriend in the first place. Was it because you weren't happy? Or because he was treating you badly? I vaguely remember reading something about a boyfriend not treating someone well not sure if this was you or not. My apologies.
Well I'm going to be honest with you as I always am. That was REALLY harsh what you texted him. Why wouldn't you just talk to him and let him know that you didn't want to be with him? I think you feel bad about how you did it and what you say. I think its making you feel guilty. Depending on why you broke up with him why do you want to talk to him? To get back together? Or to be more civil with one another? I don't know if he will ever for give because I'm not him. If you want to talk to him you should definitely approach him but don't be surprised if he turns you down or ignores you. He might still be hurt by what you did. Give yourself sometime for him to think and for you to think what about happened and what you really want. Good luck! [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
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