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Will a guy tease a girl a lot or try to make her jealous if he likes her?
He likes to tease me over little things (my dumb jokes, gullibility (cause sarcasm sometimes flies over my head, and innocence), even if they happened over a week ago. But I don't know if it's in good nature or not cause he told me that he sees me as innocent and as a good girl and everything. but it's not like he knows what's at the depths of my mind.. I just somehow give off that innocent vibe in public. I'm sure he'd be surprised to know that I can have really perverted thoughts, especially when I'm around him. but other than that I suppose I'm pretty innocent.
he's really confusing me cause while he teases me (he's been doing it more and more) he also seems to treat me with respect and what not, other times. and with the jealousy thing, I'm referring to how he said yesterday that he was looking forward to going to his home town (we're college freshmen) this weekend to go to a family function and check out this one girl who's related to his family (but not by blood) and I was like.. what? I was in a car with a couple other people and he was talking to someone else in the front seat and he turned around and looked at me after he said it. what the hell? which made me start thinking he may not like me after all, and he was trying to give me a sign that he knew I liked him but he didn't return the favor? I didn't respond, and then for the rest of the night he just continued with his weird mix of teasing and respecting me? what is this?? I'm too shy to ask him anything direct about this whole mess, but it just makes me feel like giving up. Like when I talk to him, like anyone else, I'm totally genuine, but he likes to be sarcastic and what not, and take advantage of this trust I have in what people say. I like sarcasm though, when I get it at least, and he's a little bit of a bad boy (which I don't typically like. I started liking him before I knew of this cause we he's cute and we have similar weird interests), but embarrassingly enough, that makes me more attracted to him. he's just so confusing. i hang out with mainly guys and 2 other girls an he doesn't treat the 2 other girls like this. well, one of them he sees as innocent too, even though she has more romantic experience than me, but i've never heard him tease her or anything. sometimes I'm afraid he might like her, cause she has that conventional blonde prettiness, though. in all honesty, i'm pretty too, but in a different way. but my other friend said she saw him checking me out yesterday and I swear I noticed it a few times, too. And I was dressing nice, not even wearing anything revealing. i'm not sure what he's talked about with other guys, too, cause I feel like he's discussed SOMETHING with them cause of how they sometimes act strange when the guy makes some kind of signal with them or something
I just don't know what is going on and I don't like it. But it's not like I can control who I like. just a sexually frustrated and confused capricorn girl (he's a scorpio, if it affects anything). and btw, i'm not desperate or naive. I'm really afraid of falling in love and getting my heart broken, so I don't show my deep feelings unless I really trust someone. I have another scorpio friend in my group who acts normal with me which is refreshing, but he also has a girlfriend, so that's probably why. I mean, this guy I'm crushing on... I'm really not sure what he'd do. There's a part of me that thinks I should just forget about him, and then another part that lusts pretty hard over him, but yeah, I try to keep that hidden
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Hi nice to read your story here's the thing you wanted to know if a male like you will he tease you or make you jealous, the truthful answer to that is it varies from man to man some men think you will like them more if they make you jealous and others think if they tease you they will get your attention, so maybe its time you play his game tease him make him a lil jealous and if none of that works he could not be into you maybe his looking for some fun but try and show him your full personality and just be straight forward with him and for the rest love is about taking the risk if you can't risk getting hurt then you won't be able to fall in love with him fully so if you feel you can trust him try to lose the fear hopefully all will go well good luck. Jesse XOXOXXX
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