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Are these signs this guy likes me?
-sometimes I catch him checking me out, even when I'm sitting down. I've seen him stare at my feet (with nail polish and strappy wedge heels), my legs (when I wore a mini dress), and even my friend said she once caught him looking me over when I wasn't paying attention
-when our eyes meet he tends to raise his eyebrows or just one and smile like he's surprised or being devious or something. sometimes it seems involuntary, too
-teases me frequently, over silly things. but it's hard for me to get mad at him cause he also compliments/defends me in cute ways, too. like some other guy said that my accent sometimes makes things sound funny (I'm in the midwest and I've lived in multiple places around the world), but in a good way, and then I was like "thanks..?" and then both that guy and the guy i'm originally talking about said it was a good thing and that I sound soothing, and would make a good narrator. I think that he likes that I appear innocent (it's funny cause my mind is not very innocent at all) even though he also teases me about it, like when I miss something he says sarcastically
-respects the fact that I don't do weed, even though he does. when he was high he said that he wishes he could be in my position, and sort of seemed protective with what he said. and him and his friend (same one from earlier) have never pressured me or anything into what they do
-lets me in his personal space. i've only known him for about a week, but the past few days (when I started crushing on him) I've sat pretty close to him a couple times, and our legs would touch in a way, but he doesn't try to get out of the way
-we both have eye contact easily
-we have a lot of the same geeky interests
-he greets me right when I come in a room (even when others don't) and tends to use my name (well, nickname) when talking to me in conversation
-if it makes any difference, he's a scorpio and i'm a capricorn
on the other side, that same friend who saw him checking me out said she thinks he's a bit of a flirt, which kinda worries me. like I hang out with mostly guy friends and then there are 3 girls (me, that girl, and another), and how am I supposed to know who he likes the most? I told my girl friends that I liked this guy, so should I just go by their judgment?
and also, this really weird situation happened. me, him, and 2 other people were sitting in a car and eating, and he was talking to his guy friend in the front about how he was excited to come home this weekend (labour day weekend. we're college freshmen) and go to this family function where there will be this girl (from the way he was talking, I'm guessing she's attractive?) and it was ok because she wasn't a blood relative. I was with that same girl friend from earlier in the back and I was confused.. and then right after the guy said that he looked back to see my reaction and I masked it but it definitely irked me. What was this? Was he trying to say that he knew that I liked him, and was trying to show that he didn't like me back, by letting me down that way? Or was he just trying to make me jealous? Cause him and that guy in the front seemed like they we're in on some kind of joke.. but idk. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN
and am I over reading things, and could all those actions mean he's crushing on me, too, is just a horny teenager, or just wants to be friends? do guys ever want to just be friends with girls? In all honesty, I'm good looking, and have been told so, and am dressy casual everyday, even though most girls here just dress casual. I just feel more confident in myself when I dress nice. And I just wear mascara, eyeliner, and lipstick/gloss. I think I need an outside opinion, please be totally honest
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What a lot of information....I feel like I know you!
Honest opinion? Yeah, he's a flirt, and it's YOU he's flirting with. I reckon you've done enough analysis. Dress your best, and go get him! I don't think you'll have to try too hard. I can't say you didn't give me all the facts. Got a tip though. If he asks how you knew he fancied you, give him a shortened version, or you might come across a tiny little bit obsessive-sounding!! Just joking... have a great time....
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