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I wanna know what to do....this thing is killing me!!
Ok, so I used to go out with this guy who totally and absolutely used me, so i dont need anyone to tell me that. Whatever we did was physical stuff and fingering and i never really felt comfortable with the kind of physical intimacy that we had. After we broke up, he immediately went out with this other girl, so its been very awkward between the two of us. After this girl left(she was in town only for a month or so) he openly admitted that he wanted me only for physical stuff and asked for a friendship with benefits. Now, I know that he's a jerk and that all of my sensibility has deserted me, but i love this guy. I can see myself having fun if I did take up this friendship with benefits. But I also know that a friendship with benefits is entirely and wholesomely and in every way the wrongest thing that I could do. I am in desperate need of advice on this. Oh and by the way, I am fourteen.
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I've been in your situation. I became intimate with a guy who I was crazy about. He had feelings somewhere for me, but it was mostly all physical to him. I still went along with it. Of course it hurt me, I loved the guy and he didn't see me like that. It'll be fun but trust me, it's not worth it. You're always going to be wanting more from him but he's not going to give that to you. I learned the hard way.
Trust me, you'll find someone better who will actually feel the same for you. I still think about that guy a lot but I'm so much happier now.
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