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i love him
im 18/f. i got 2 know him 4m my friend. we 3 became best friends. suddenly he told me that he likes my friend(who introduced him to me) that was the time i realized that i also love him but i dont want to spoil my friendship so i talked with my friend and she said that she loves him too. they got committed. i was happy 4 them. when they have some problem they used to come to me for solution i used to advice them. but some days b4 he flirted with another girl very badly my friend broke up with him and i scolded him in front of everyone. he asked sorry to us now he is talking to me like b4 and i still like him and i dont know what to do my friends are asking me to tell him but im afraid of many things
what he will think?(he told me iam his best friend.
What will my friend think? (the girl whom he was committed before).
what others will think? (everyone in knows that he was my friends bf and their breakup and me their best friend)
what should i do??? i dont want to spoil my friendship.
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Because of what he did to your friend he is not a good candidate for a relationship. He can't be trusted. Even if you like him, you have to think about what the quality of the relationship would be and how this may hurt your friend. Even if you ask her if it's okay for you to date him and she says yes, she may be lying. It is best to avoid this altogether. Not only could you spoil your friendship with him, but you could spoil your friendship with your other friend too. It wasn't like he flirted with you, he flirted with someone else. If he was really that interested in you, he wouldn't be with your friend and flirting with someone else entirely. He's not a good choice for a person to date. You'll find someone else that you like. It's easy to fall in love with someone that you spend a lot of time around. Trust me, there are a lot better guys out there for you than him. You deserve way better than getting involved with him. It sucks because you do like him, but it's definitely the wrong decision to date him, kiss him, or get involved with him beyond the friendship at all. I wish you the best of luck and don't worry, you will find someone that would treat you with more respect than this guy has shown that he will in a relationship.
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