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how to tell my father
Hi Sir
I really need to talk to someone that really knows about life. My father hates my boyfriend of 2years en 6months, but he does not even know we are together. It's personal, so please if you can help let me know.
I'm a 22year old femaile.
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There is very little information here to go on which to offer any help. I do have a question though? How can you date someone for 2 1/2 years and not have members of your family not know him.
I will offer this one piece of advice. While a son is expected to grow in to a man and go out in the world. To a father a daughter will always be daddy's little girl even when she is all grown up and has a family of her own.
For the longest time I thought I did not have my father in-laws approval until his brother told me I did, conditional as it were. He told me my father in-law did approve of me to an extent, though full approval I would never have as I was the man that slept with his daughter. Seems to validate what I said above.
You are an adult now and have been for some time. You are responsible for your own decisions. Yes it would be nice to have your parents approval for everything you do. This is the real world, your parents are not going to approve of everything you do for various reasons.
Mostly it is not because they think your wrong. It is because the world moves so fast they are lost in the modern changes and don't understand why you may do something they wouldn't think to do.
You may think the last statement does not answer your question. Maybe not directly. I can't say your dad hates your boyfriend; I mean how can you hate someone you haven't met. So in there may lie the key to the answer you are seeking.
If you can supply more information I will be glad to try and help you.
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