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i just wanna get my mother out of my life i dont care what it takes, she just hurts me and iv had enough.
hi guys. ok so i am 13 and have a little brother by 3. i have to parents but the thing is i have been abused since i was 10. my mom has called me very rude names, hurt me alot. but my dad is sort of the nice kind supports me and all but sometimes he goes along with my mom because idk. i dont really like family. i use to cut myself but not anymore. i really dont like my life because theyr in it. i just wanna get my mother out of my life i dont care what it takes, she just hurts me and iv had enough. all i have are friends, friends are my family. i find my family annoying and hurtful. i just feel bad for my brothers future. everyone adores him now , not that im jealous, i love him , but still i dont feel like im apart of that family. im always in my room all day whenever im home and my mom complains for the silliest things, what should i do? please help me thanks guys! appreciate it.
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you can't get rid of your own mother, you came out of her and she carried you in her body for 9 months. What you can do is not listen to the things she says and if she hits you just don't do anything about it it doesn't really matter unless she's beating the living shit out of you and stabbing you with knifes than call the cops and she'll be long gone. Sure parents may seem irrational at the age you are at but when you get older you'll understand and see the shit she does has a reason, and if it doesn't oh well life goes on.
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I don't know what it is with girls your age and their moms.I watch my sister go through and my nieces with her. Maybe it is something that has to do with girls and puberty. I really just don't know.
Every time we are asked this question, and we get them quite often. One or more of the girl advice-rs will relate her experience with her mom.
I believe that at this time you are at an age now that I refer to as betweeners. You are no longer a child and you are not really and adult. Some of us may refer to you as young adults which is not quite true either. For the next year or so you are a bit lost in your age group. Which I feel is at the heart of the matter.
It is also not uncommon that at this age you are a little closer to dad then mom. Dads and daughters always have something special. No matter how old you get, you will be all grown up with your own family and you will still be his little girl.
The only thing I can suggest other than asking for counseling, which might help, is to ride the storm out. It will pass that I can promise you. My youngest niece could have written this letter when she was your age. She now is married and lives in Texas. She calls her mom at least once a day and they talk constantly throughout the day on facebook.
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I used to have the same "problem" as you do right now a long time ago, my mom used to call me rude names all the time, she hit me some times, she basically treated me like human garbage. What I did to solve this problem was beginning to no care what other people thought of me. Ever since I thought about this idea I use the this strategy to go through life, now I can do whatever I want as I only care about what I think of me. A little advice life is what "you" make of it, not what other make of it, if you keep caring about the things your mom and bullies say, you will only be hurting yourself.
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