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Should I text my guy friend?
He's a friend I made at college. I liked him, he wasn't interested that way, it was a little awkward but we're cool now. I do not want him to know that I'm still into him. We've talked just a few times over the summer (he mostly initiated the conversations).
He hasn't been online at all for almost a week and I'm a little concerned because it's not like him to vanish for this long. I know it's most likely that something has happened to his internet connection (he's been piggybacking on a neighbor's unsecured wifi) or his computer isn't working or something, but still. I have anxiety issues and worry about people unnecessarily a lot, so I am trying not to overreact here, but I want to text him to be sure everything's all right. School starts in a week and a half, and all summer long I've restrained myself from randomly texting him. Should I send him a hey-what's-up text (not a creepy why-haven't-you-been-online text!), or hold out knowing that everything is probably fine and I'm a worry wart?
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Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
If you're worried about him, then just send a friendly "hi, whats up?" text.
I doubt he'll get the wrong idea, especially if he has initiated conversations with you before.
So go for it.
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