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letting it on easy
so im going to probably dump my girlfriend but i dont know a way to tell her in an easy way.
i would like to be with her but she kind of tries to control a little bit of my life. i know a girl that has a HUGE crush on me but i dont want her to think thats the reason.
(im 14) do you have any advice??
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Well dude, sorry to inform you of this, but there really is no easy way to break up. Breaking up is painful and it really really hurts. One thing you can do is break up face to face. Breaking up over the phone, in a letter, or such is the worst thing you can ever do.
Even though you can't break up easily, you can break up truthfully. Tell her exactly the reasons why you are breaking up. Let her know that you'll forever cherish the times spent with her, and that you wish her all the best, but now your time is over. Giving her a hug afterwards might be a great idea or it might be the worst thing ever. It depends how she reacts. When my boyfriend broke up with me, I ran into another room and tried to lock the door, but he ran after me and quickly opened it, and he hugged me, and said: "it's not because of you... you didn't do anything wrong." It made me feel better.
It's very hard to find the courage to break up with someone, I know that, since I've had to make that decision once. I have to warn you, even if you hate the person you break up with, like in my case, there's gonna be times when you'll feel really sad and regret breaking up with them. There are gonna be times when you'll really really miss them. Just always remember that you deserve the best girl out there, and try not to look back. I wish you all well, you have a difficult task ahead of you... I hope everything turns out alright.
Good luck :)
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