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How do I move on from my cheating ex, he's blaming me for the truth?


Question Posted Tuesday July 31 2012, 4:43 pm

Hi I'm a female aged 27 from the UK. I was with this guy for 4 and a half years. The 1st 3 years were great. Then I moved over to the North East (where he lives) and things started to go down hill, I heard he was texting another girl and I accused him but he insisted he wasn't. We had a break for 3 mths but he begged me back.

I took him back and he bought his 1st house and asked me to move in. We were happy again and spent mths decorating the house. I moved out of my apartment and moved in. However he didn't and stayed at his parents up the road.

To cut a REALLy long story short he basically wasn't sleeping over with me nor did he move in. I split up with him and he has begged me for 8 mths to take him back doing crazy things like turning up at my school (I'm a teacher) attaching flowers to my car, crying alot (to name a few things!).

I recently found out he was seeing someone behind my back for a year!! He was still seeing me and I was letting him back in my life because he used to cry and make me feel sorry for him.

Me and the girl confronted him and he told me to foff and said that he wanted her when not 3 days ago he told me via email that he still loved me which she has seen! The 2nd girl also found out about a 3rd girl he slept with this year who is pregnant!!

He's blaming me for exposing the truth and hasn;t even said sorry for what he put me through. How do I move on from the lies, cheating and betrayal??


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Xui answered Tuesday July 31 2012, 10:54 pm:
He's a complete waste of time


Lets face it, The guy was caught red handed. Nobody likes to admit they cheated or were wrong and therefore he is blaming you for making him look like a fool.

Honestly, Move on from him. The guy is pulling a sympathy card probably because he feels he needs someone else encase his little affair doesn't go as planned. He is a manipulator and he's good at it

Don't fall for his games, Do yourself a favor and move on from him. This guy is a poor excuse

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