Thank you so much. Well i texted me today askin him if he can take me to get some papers, he asked at wat time so I said in the morning. Well he just said "juuuum" i told him to fooorget it. Uh :( After i told him "can you just tell me what are you gonna do with this reationship because im already getting tired of it" He just told me "I love you and i learned all this through you" :( :( I love him so much i cannot let go but i know its going to hurt me more :'( :'(
I suppose what I would do if I were you would be ask myself this question: can I seriously do better than this guy in the future?
I know if you love him alot you'll probably say no. But is he what you always wanted in a boyfriend? Like in intelligence/looks/personality?
Basically, you have to judge whether the relationship is worth saving or not,and whether (no ofense) due to your age you're taking everything to heart (I know I did) or whether actually you can do and deserve to be treated better.
I know its hard but overcome the emotions and deal with the facts. You're hurting now and you say if this continues then you'll hurt more. Its abit of a cycle that you need to break out of. If I were you I'd sit him down and explain you guys need a break. Just even for a month so you can think things through. Then,when you can think clearer you can decide if the relationship is worth saving or not. Trust me, you seem to full of hurt and anguish to make a rational desion now, so I'd break up for now and see.
If he doesn't want to get back together then its his loss, but you'll be stronger for it honey and the right fella will come eventually. Good luck and inbox me if you need to :) [ kittenlover2000's advice column | Ask kittenlover2000 A Question ]
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