I am 18, female. My brother is 20 and his best friend is 21. I am totally in "like" with my brother's best friend. I have reasons to believe his friend feels the same. I invited him to my graduation party. A few days before my party we were joking to he could give me my favorite wine for my party, he showed up to my party without it so I was messing with him that I wanted wine and he didn't get it for me, he left my party when he wasn't even there for 3 minutes, to go out and buy me the wine. He then proceeded to go into the kitchen, open the bottle (because I can never get the corks off) and pour me a cup of wine. A few days after, my brother's girlfriend was throwing a birthday party, my brother's friend doesn't drink so usually he is the only sober one at parties there to take care of everyone and drive everyone home. He has been asking me to go to her party for a while because he would really appreciate having a sober conversation at a party for once. My mom dropped me off at the party because my brother wanted her to get them food and she did on the way to dropping me off. I got out of the car with the food and my brother's friend said "hey, are you here to stay all night?" and after I told him yes, he smiled so big. We hung out all that night and he even drove me home around 2:30 am. Today, he came over to take my brother to the car shop because my brother got a flat tire. I was looking at some weird food we had in the fridge and he came into the kitchen and jokingly told me I shouldn't eat that, I told him I would decide that once I figure out what it is, he was almost out the door when I said this and he came back in saying that it did look weird, he came up behind me and looked over my shoulder to see the weird food, he was so close to me I could feel his breath on my back.
Now, many of you are probably thinking "that's your brother's best friend, how could you like him." See, I have a guilty conscience, I would feel bad for dating my brother's best friend IF my brother didn't date my best friend a few years ago.
So, in conclusion, I am just wondering if you think he likes me back or if I should just leave it alone. Don't tell me to leave it alone because he is my brother's best friend, I already know that and am aware of the possible consequences.
okay123 answered Tuesday July 31 2012, 6:33 pm: I'd say go for it. You're both young and if you never say anything you'll regret it.
But - prepare yourself - he may like you very much, but might not want to jepordize his relationship with your brother. Your brother will always forgive you - you're family, but he may never forgive his friend for dating his little sister.
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