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Question Posted Sunday July 29 2012, 2:18 pm

I don't enjoy sex cause my husband is always tired, what should I do?
And I am 23 years, should I give up? Cause its been a lot time.


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adviceman49 answered Monday July 30 2012, 11:04 am:
Not being a doctor I can't say if something is medically wrong her. Though if you and your husband are of the same ages and your husband works a normal work week I believe medical intervention is required.

I believe there is something physically wrong with him, possibly low "T" (Testosterone) or he may be depressed. Being constantly tired is a form of depression and could be related to stress at work.

Again I am not a doctor and these are the two most common factors that came to mind. Both are serious conditions that need to be addressed by his doctor. There are other conditions I'm sure which could account for his constant tiredness. Just how serious they may be I don't know.

You are both two young to be giving up on an important part of married life. Especially if what I am thing could be the problem. Both conditions I'm thinking of are easily correctable with medication.

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Xenolan answered Sunday July 29 2012, 3:10 pm:
The problem needs to addressed now, because if it is not, it will only get worse. I speak from experience - my wife and I have had similar issues for the last 13 years of our marriage, and it's reached a point where I don't even want to try and fix it anymore.

Your husband needs to know that he is denying you something which is necessary to a happy marriage. He needs to figure out WHY he is always tired. There may be a problem with his health which needs to be addressed. I am not a doctor so I won't list blind guesses as to what it might be, but he should see someone who IS a doctor so he can find out. Presumably, he doesn't enjoy being frequently tired.

Whatever is causing the problem, get to the root of it as soon as you can. 23 is much too young to give up on having a decent sex life with your husband.

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