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could be my first love... mother in the way
if a guy is in to me and i am in to him but he works with my mother who does not want me to date should i forget about it or try to make it work and if so how?
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This question really depends on how old you are. If your in the 14 to 16 age range, he would have to be at least 16 to work with your mom. Then my answer has to be forget about it.
I am mostly basing my answer on your writing style which tells me your are on the younger side of the age range I gave above. There are two reasons for my answering as I have.
While 2 years numerically is not a big difference at your ages there is a big difference in maturity levels especially when it comes to dating experience. Which is the second reason. His dating experience is four more honed at 16 then yours would be at 14 or even 15.
While socially it is a big plus for you to be dating a junior or senior in school it also places you in a position of vulnerability. You may not be capable of warding of advances or liberties he may take with you. If you do not understand the meaning of what I have written then you are definitely to young to be dating him.
In life everything has a progression, and a progression has a starting point. Dating is one of them. You start with group dates. Boys and girls going to the movies or the mall or doing anything as a group. Back in the days as they say today this progressed to double dates as parents saw safety in numbers. Then the on to the single date and car dating. Today it moves a little faster but the progression is about the same.
Mom will let you date when she feels you are mature enough to handle dating and not allow yourself to be hurt or to get into trouble you can't handle. To try and go around mom will only cement her feelings that you are not mature enough to date.
So my answer remains : Forget about it and move on with the progression to dating.
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