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Why did he do this?!
i'm 19/f
he's 22/f
strong christian, doesn't just lead girls on.
he asked me to coffee just to chat about life. we talked about EVERythiNG. why would he do this?!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Maybe he just wants to be friends? Or maybe he likes you and want to go out. Just relax. If he likes you, wait for signs. Don't try to make a move or anything...just wait. If you don't like him in that way, seriously, relax and act normal. If you do like him in that way, maybe arrange another coffee session?
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Xenolans' answer is probably correct.
Being a Christian he is not your usual date in that everything revolves around sex. He is not going to be all hands and if he does kiss you it will most likely be a chaste kiss on the cheek for quite some time.
Dating a Christian is not that different than dating is to dating a non Christian; once you understand that God and the Church are foremost in his life. As far as most everything else he is a normal person. His belief in sex is for after marriage. His belief in contraception and abortion will be that of the church.
As for dating he will probably become more intimate as he gets to know you but don't expect him to spend the night, at least not in your bed. Hand holding and cuddling on the couch probably.
He will be a good husband, father and provider. He will honor and cherish the women he marries. But his first love and allegiance will always be god and the church.
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He wants to crucify you. :(
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Probably because he's interested in you. That's the usual reason why a guy might ask a girl out and talk to her about a bunch of stuff.
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