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My Boyfriend wants to have sex, But in a different way.
My boyfriend is trying to do abusive sex to me, And it's painful. He's always whipping me when im working at home. I can't stand it. But he's a tough man so i don't want him hurting me if i dump him. He tried to kill my dad once. Help me!!
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Call the police.
Sorry for the original answer being so short, I was working with my Ipad and it is hard to type on.
If everything you have written is true, and I'm not saying it isn't then really the only thing, the right thing to do is to call the police and file charges.
If by whipping you do you mean spanking you or do you mean actually using a belt to whip you? Either way this is an assault on you even if it is in the form of sex play if you are not consenting to it. If you are under the age of consent in your state it is not only assault it is rape, statutory rape as you are legally not able to consent to sex by law.
By filing charges with the police and having him arrested he can't hurt you. You also file for a restraining order which is a court order that tells him to stay away from you or he goes to jail even if he is out on bail.
So pick up the phone dial 911 and ask for the police to come to your home. He can't send them away. They need to speak to you and see you to make sure you're safe before they can leave. If he has been hurting you and you are marked up by his beatings they will arrest him. If he has forced you to have sex with him this is the time to charge him with rape.
Their is also an organization that you should call once he is in custody. They are called RAINN which stands for Rape, Abused, Incest, National Network. The volunteers who answer their hotline, which is available 24/7 will help you find people in your home town to help you get through this and get your life back in order. Their number is 1-800-656-HOPE
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