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my bf doesnt like to talk bout our future anymore
hi u jsut answered my question .. but i woudl also like to mention that ... he only asked meh that question because we were talking bout long distance relationship... if it ll work or not ..n to that i said it is difficult but not impossible n he is like ya it ll work .. i just dont understand .. he is moody sometimes n then sometimes he is vry caring ... but that question he asked meh .. if we ll be freinds after breakup if long dist rela doesnt work out.. just pinched meh ... n i dont rll know how to deal with it. I though i should just go with the flow .. .. the thought of breaking up with him is vry difficult for meh .. cause .. we have been through soo much .. n i ll luv him .. n i slept with him .. which makes it even more difficult for meh to break up! now wat should i do?
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Don't worry about this so much! If he wants assurance that you'll still be friends even if you break up, that means that he really loves you a lot and doesn't want to be separated from you, even if you aren't TOGETHER together. Believe it or not, that's a good sign, because at this point he probably thinks YOU'RE getting tired of your relationship, so he's worried YOU'LL break up with him, and he doesn't want to lose you, and even if you aren't a couple, he still wants to be near you. You just have to assure him that you DO love him, and I don't mean through words or sex. Do something special for him—I don't know him so don't know what he'd like exactly, maybe a date to his favorite restaurant or something—to show that you care, and he won't feel as unsure of your feelings. (also tell him how you feel, but not in a really sappy way, because if I were a guy I wouldn't exactly like that)
Good luck!
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